Moving is stressful! Add a kid or two or four to the mix
and your sanity is hanging by a thread! The
good news is that kids are more resilient than we are. If you take the time to
prepare them for what to expect, they just might see your move as an exciting
adventure! Here are some handy tips and tricks to make your move, with kids in
tow, as manageable as possible.
1. Prepare kids for what to expect. Talk
about your upcoming move and explain to them exactly what will happen. For
young children, there are many children’s books about moving – they are great
for illustrating what may be hard to understand with words alone.
2. Let the kids help you pack. If
they're old enough, let your children help you pack some of their personal
belongings. Even at a young age, kids can sort their toys and help you wrap
objects in tissue paper or bubble wrap. If you'll be putting some things into
storage, ask them what they would like to keep and what they don't mind parting
with for a while.
3. Have a goodbye party. Give
your kids an opportunity to say goodbye to the people who matter to them most.
Children love a celebration, and this can be a great way to turn your move into
a positive, exciting experience.
4. Make a memory board. If
you're preparing for a long-distance move, chances are good that you'll be
leaving family and close friends behind. Help your kids make a memory board by
building a collage of their favorite pictures with their favorite people. When
you get to your new home, they can hang this memory board in a special place
where they can see their loved ones every day.
5. Don't rush yourself. It's
hard to accomplish any task quickly with small children under foot. Give
yourself lots of time to plan and execute your move. It’s never too early to
pre-pack!
6. Take kids' concerns seriously. Even
toddlers can verbalize at least some of what they're feeling, and older
children will probably have lots of questions and concerns. Always treat kids'
feelings with respect, even when you can't accommodate their requests.
7. Time your move. Sometimes, circumstances
dictate when you have to move. But, if you have a choice, try to time your move
so that it occurs at a relatively calm period in your child's life. Take school
schedules into consideration, and avoid moving when other big changes (like
potty-training or sleeping transitions) are happening, too.
8. Pull out the pull-ups. If
you'll be traveling by car or plane with a recently potty-trained toddler or
pre-schooler, think about putting them in a pull-up for the duration of your
trip. It will give you peace of mind, just in case you can't find a bathroom
along the way.
9. Pack a special bag of favorite toys and activities. Invest
in a small backpack or overnight bag that will stay with your child through the
entire move. Kids can keep special items like dolls, books, or blankets in this
bag, in addition to other toys that they can play with on the car trip or plane
ride.
10. Pack one box of toys last. Your
children are going to need things to do right up until the time you move out of
your home. Don't make the mistake of packing all the toys up first because
you'll be left with bored children who just might drive you crazy.
11. Label boxes of kids' stuff very clearly. The day
will come when you find yourself digging through boxes looking for the toy that
they absolutely have to play with right now. Do yourself a favor; don't
just label boxes with the word "toys." Include as much detail about
what is in the box as you can because, trust me, you won't remember.
12. Provide alternate entertainment. If
babysitters are available, use them! You will get a lot more done if you can
find a few kid-free hours. If you don't have childcare, find activities that
will keep your little ones entertained while you work. A special DVD from
Redbox or a new set of paints or modeling clay can go a long way in keeping
kids busy.
13. Make it an adventure. Moving
creates upheaval in your life, and wreaks havoc on your child's normal routine
anyway, so take advantage and let your kids do things you normally wouldn't.
Maybe let them stay up late or have treats you don't normally allow. I'm pretty
sure that all the extra trips to fast-food restaurants are my kids' favorite
part of moving.
14. Keep extra clothes handy. Kids
make messes. Constantly. So make sure you keep lots of extra clothes close at
hand during your move, because you never know when they'll be needed. I've also
found it helpful to keep extra ziploc bags and stain-treating spray handy,
since you might not have access to a washing machine during your actual move.
15. Use a cooler. At some point before you
move, you will have to unplug your refrigerator and empty your pantry. This can
make it difficult to feed your kids, and a cooler can be a lifesaver. It's a
great place to store heathy snacks and drinks while the movers are boxing up
your fridge.
16. Plan on forgetting something. There's
so much to prepare for during a move that it's impossible to think of
everything. Chances are good that you're going to forget something, so
cut yourself some slack and have a back-up plan. Know where the nearest grocery
store or Target, so it's easy to pick up extra diapers, snacks, sippy cups,
whatever if the need arises.
17. Maintain familiar routines. Once
you're in your new home, some things will have to change. But try to maintain
the aspects of your life that are most important to your kids. Stick to
familiar bedtime routines and continue your tradition of Saturday morning
pancakes if you can.
18. Reassure kids that you are a constant in their life. When
young kids lose the security of a home they've always known, they can become
insecure about losing other important things in their life, too. Don't forget
to reassure them that, even when homes and friends have to change, you will
always be there for them.
19. Make a big deal about all the exciting new things
you can do. A new home means new friends and new opportunities. Get
out and explore all the cool new attractions that you can visit if you're in a
new city, or take advantage of all the neat things your new home has to offer
that your old home didn't.
20. Invest in postcards.
Postcards are a great way to stay connected to friends and family back home.
Kids will be proud to show off their new home, and even young children who
can't write yet can draw a picture to send to loved ones.
21. Don't be in a hurry to unpack. If you
immediately start pulling everything out of boxes, you'll have piles of stuff
everywhere, and the clutter will create unnecessary stress for everyone in the
house. Take your time and unpack what you need slowly and gradually.
22. Make it feel like home. Take
your time unpacking, but also make it a priority to hang or display some of
your cherished and familiar personal items as soon as possible. Familiar things
will help to make a new house feel like home for both you and your children.
23. Keep the moving boxes as long as possible. Once
you've unpacked, you've got to keep the moving boxes for your kids. The make
awesome tunnels and forts, and will keep them entertained for hours!
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